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False and arrogant people. Three tactics of behavior with arrogant people

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Actor Alexey Serebryakov, living in Canada, sees a national idea in force, arrogance and rudeness. With his opinion it is difficult to agree, but rudeness and arrogance sometimes meets in everyday life. How to deal with arrogance and rudeness without giving yourself offense?

Sometimes there are people who make aggressive comments and attacks into your side. How to deal with rudeness and resist Hamam?

Stay calm

One of the techniques of opposition to arrogance and rudeness is non-vulnerable. When a person shouts at you, hens rudeness or disrespect should not go on his occasion. Do not show your confusion or fear. Do not let the Hama pour out or bring you out of themselves. Do not try to defend or defend it, as if you are justifying. Quietly, clearly, firmly, confident and relaxed to present his point of view on what is happening. Be above the height and Hama. Smile in the face of the height ironic and dismissively. Staying calm in the manifestation of aggression is a sign of force.

Yawai or chihni

The enemy runs on you, criticizes and is trying to morally suppress? Whether be calm, and after Ham is interrupted for a moment, yawn or chihni. Sorry and tell me with a smile that you are allergic to nonsense and crazy stories. Ask what else wants to say and finished his monologue to his interlocutor. After such an apathetic reaction, all the attempts of the height, the interlocutor will feel the losers, and you will go out the winner.

Ignore

Sometimes the enemy is trying to cause response aggression, disassembly or conversation. If you are not ready to join the controversy, then ignore the height. Ham is trying to attract your attention, and you do not give it to him. Let's look to the side, Zowni and ignore his miserable fun to draw you into a conversation. Demonstrate ignore and smile.

How to answer rudeness and arrogance? Sometimes you want to plug the inspected and funny phrase. What to say how do you get? It is sometimes difficult to immediately come up with a ridiculous answer, suitable situations. But there are ready-made decent answers to rudeness, which will attract your opponent on the blades and put out the fool. Lock a couple of them. Print the harmful response with a smirk and sarcasm.

1. You confused me with someone who is interested in your opinion.
2. I am not interested in your complexes and problems.
3. Are you trying to offend me?
4. Rudeness you are not to face.
5. His beauty will not save the world.
6. Bad day today?
7. Train your sense of humor, it is still in the infancy.
8. I was a better opinion about you.
9. Are you politely replied?
10. Roth open the dentist.
11. I do not talk with stupid.
12. Do you know where you should go?
13. I am very "important" your opinion.
14. Do you hurt your life?
15. Nature has been looking at you.
16. I watch you do not differ intelligence.
17. Will yell on your children.
18. I do not answer stupid questions.
19. I do not like to communicate with insignificals.
20. Where so much on Lokhov Street?
21. Large words of a small man.
22. Another offended by God.
23. In the mental hospital, open doors?
24. Silent, you will go for smart.
25. You are not so beautiful to heat.
26. Enlighten silently.
27. I'm not talking to drunk and fools.
28. I don't like something, you can shoot.
29. I am not offended at poorly.
30. Is that all that is capable of?
31. Enough splashing saliva.
32. When I want to know your opinion, I will ask.
33. Where does the unpleasant smell come from, and this mouth you open.
34. Go go to the forest.
35. Moma slept with whom?
36. In the book of garbage of the world you are in the last place.
37. Where are so much degenerates from?
38. There are no brains, it means crippled.
39. There are many words, and there are few brains.
40. Child go to parents.
41. Not at that gavkay.
42. Mouth open at the level of the stying level.
43. Grandson Petrosyan?
44. Not scaling, I'm not afraid of horses.
45. What a funny and evil dog from you.
46. \u200b\u200bNot original, but then the seals will fly out.
47. Once the language is so long, probably a member is short.
48. I look neither forces, no mind, no fantasy.
49. I would send you, but you are only from there.
50. I'm not offended on fools.

Sometimes the height and Hama can shut up a couple of good blows into the jaw.

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Hepacity is the quality of the character of a person, the tendency to act without moral, moral or legal grounds.

Manifestation of arrogance

The arrogance in the character of a person is manifested in the form of a disregard of public opinion established by the norms, if it interferes with the goal. Usually such people are called the naked. Naked can take what does not belong to him without an embarrassment.
A arrogant man considers his interests more important, he will not wait, to give way to ladies, scend with children or give tribute to age. He needs to get - he also gets, despite the fact that the interests of others will suffer.
Even if someone becomes resent, he will not change his tactics and silently or starts rudely responding. But he will not refuse his actions. No shame. He is very careful that you will think. The presentation of unreasonable requirements, excessive perseverance. The naked car interferes in other people's affairs, and even can impose its point of view.

Artificial height

Hepacity is a means of forcibly lifting its own dignity by artificial impairment of the surrounding people.
It is impossible to mix arrogance with rudeness, frosting, daring, unceremoniousness and rudeness. This is not the same as Grubian, Salu or Ham. To achieve a state material happiness character nature - arrogance is extremely important!

However, the arrogance in this case is good in moderation. If it is based on greed, envy, anger and desire to subordinate to their whims - then this is another character quality - infinite arrogance and rudeness. Then it's just absurd to wait for some mercies from her.

Arrogance is always repelled from egoism

The arrogance and courage mutually complement each other, but if the courage is a sign of nobility, then the arrogance is a sign of youth. Nevertheless, arrogance without courage does not exist.

The arrogance is indifferent to the estimates of the surrounding world. If it comes from the richness of the bad strength and the fermentation of the Spirit, it is capable of shocking people not to humiliate, but simply because of the complete ignoring of the importance of someone else's opinion.

When a person's behavior does not meet public prescriptions when he does not behave like everything, then this man is notching.

To resist the dictators of the Middle Summary of the Company and behave not defiantly need independence of judgments, independence and certain courage.

Such claims to the freedom of personality in other people are envy. Most of us wish to be brazen in the good sense of the word, self-sufficient and brave. No one wants to be awesome, Ham and Grabian.

There is a concept positive inspiration

Become a positive heater - the dream of many people, but often the arrogance becomes a derivative of fear.

Weak feeling the fear of losing a close person, work, some benefits. Current from fear becomes arrogance for him. Blowing fear is a frequent manifestation of arrogance. This is a very unpleasant condition for our ego.

On the scale "arrogance - modesty" is always solved by the question - as far as a person respects other people. If you are not destined to die from modesty, it means that arrogance protrudes in you the manifested side. Do not be discouraged, in the world of dominant egoism arrogance in moderation - positive quality.

Excessive modesty is the infringement of oneself and others.

And remember that immense impudence attracts troubles and difficulties. The society calls the arrogance of any desire for independence. Once it was right to remain modest - many remember the Soviet films who brought up modesty in children, obedience. But of course, nothing stands on the spot. Times are changing, morals change. To defend your opinion, to be increasing in your rules is one thing, but be impudent is completely different. And although everyone has a clear idea that such arrogance, it is still not easy to define this concept.

Society degradation in the absence of impudence

Imagine that the arrogance died. All people live a bone, ordered life. No one behaves defiantly.
The society calls the arrogance of any desire for independence. Audacity as some other features of the character of a person can be called - the progress of mankind.
Everything is quiet and decent. No one stands out. Technical progress stopped. So the world is arranged that if there is no development, degradation begins, if there is no progress, regression begins. The world freezes in immobility. Therefore, arrogance can be called as - life-giving heading.

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Truth of installation arrogance - second happiness

Positive arrogance is based on mighty confidence and ambitiousness.
Most often, we do not recognize your inner arrogance, we reject and do not even recognize yourself in its existence.

His depressed me, from time to time it is useful to release for a walk in the form of confidence. So we show our hidden secret side of the person.

Meeting with a pinch, we learn better to understand ourselves and realize how to be themselves. The arrogance of others contributes to our personal growth.

Impunity pushes the arrogance to rudeness. Confident person will not prove anything, justify and indignant. He loves and appreciates himself, living in harmony with the outside world. Immiest arrogance attracts troubles and difficulties.

Arrogance election

Hepacity respectfully worsens his head in front of love, strength and respect and spreads his shoulders when meeting with weakness and fear, harmonizes the world. The arrogance is ruthless to the greedy, ordinary people - honor and respect.

Often, the arrogance becomes a derivative of fear. Weak feeling the fear of losing a close person, work, some benefits. Current from fear becomes arrogance for him.
The arrogance solves the problem, it allows you to get the desired one simple way.

Corrence, attempts to keep off the desire to prevent him.
It turns out, arrogance is the second happiness? Remember - so easier, faster, some goals are achieved with smaller losses.

But is it worth losing your conscience, pass through the fragments of decency using arrogance on the way to the desired one to do you!

Once it was right to remain modest - many remember the Soviet films who brought up modesty in children, obedience. But of course, nothing stands on the spot. Times are changing, morals change. To defend your opinion, be unreleased in your rules is one. But be brazen - quite another. And although everyone has a clear idea that such arrogance, it is still not easy to define this concept.

We all came across, and more than once, when people violate the established norms of behavior, seeking to get something for their benefit. For example, pass out of turn when others defended in her decent time, selected from other certain benefits for the rights stronger. So it turns out: the arrogance solves the problem, it allows you to get the desired one simple way.

Signs of arrogance:

  • Disregard for public opinion established by the norms if it interferes.
  • Naked can take what does not belong to him without an embarrassment.
  • A arrogant man considers his interests more important, he will not wait, to give way to ladies, scend with children or give tribute to age. He needs to get - he also gets, despite the fact that the interests of others will suffer.
  • Even if someone starts to be outraged, he will not change his tactics: silently or starts rudely responding. But he will not refuse his actions.
  • No shame. He is very careful that you will think.
  • The presentation of unreasonable requirements, excessive perseverance. Still say "takes Nakhp."
  • The naked car interferes in other people's affairs, and even can impose its point of view.
  • Corrence, attempts to keep off the desire to prevent him.

It turns out, arrogance is the second happiness?

Looking at such "brands", many also want to be "bitter": it is easier, faster, some goals are achieved with smaller losses. But worth Lie

Unfortunately, among people there are different types in nature and habits, there are those with whom it is pleasant to deal with, to talk or deal with difficulty. But there are those with which even entertainment is not joy. You can upset your behavior, leave an unpleasant precipitate. Often such people impose their vision of reality and do not respect the opinion of others. They are all called in one word - the pinch. Psychologists have studied the behavior and characteristics of the most common manifestations of arrogance and gave advice, as in such a situation it is better to do.

Fucking unwittingly

The first type of height, according to psychologists not always predict in behavior. Usually in a relaxed situation, he does not show himself. His behavior is absolutely adequate, he is calm and none of those surrounding, it cannot assume that a normal person can become brazen in behavior. A person polite and pleasant in all respects can change. To such a transformation it is pushing circumstances, the elevation of your interests over the interests of others, ignoring the opinions of other people. If an ordinary person shows prudence and understanding that it is not alone, he needs to do something or achieve, then height, becoming a problem, does not see another decision, how to move another person aside. It may be a colleague at work, at a crucial moment who has been holding part of their duties on the shoulders of another, it may be a passenger in line for a ticket. Realizing that there are not enough tickets for everyone, he can try to try to purchase a travel document in a gross form, ignoring the fact that there are people ahead of him.

In such a situation, according to psychologists, the silence of the surrounding stimulates the height to continue the actions. And a sharp condemnation, the criticism of his actions, expressed out loud words can be aspired by the height. Perhaps the pinch would not show itself so, do not be a stressful situation to which he was not ready. Help him can cope with his emotions can anyone can only explain all the absurdity of the behavior of the height.

Approved by other

People of this type are unsure. All their actions are subject to doubt. And trying to assert themselves as they think, grow in their own eyes - despite the protests or displeasure of others, the arrogance of behavior is shown. For example, a man who wants to meet a married woman is primarily aiming to prove to himself that he is interested in women. Unfortunately, there is both in the environment of creative personalities when novice talents cannot refuse to be imposed on the co-authors.

From the height of this type with the help of an indignation or anger, not to bother. Psychologists argue that they are disarmed irony in their address.

Ordinary Egoist

For the insolent behavior of this type - the norm. He is so accustomed to behaving since childhood. The reasons for this set. This may be the result of home education, upbringing in street conditions, misunderstanding of elementary rules of behavior and respect for other people. These people believe that they all must, are extolled, others despise or indifferent to the problems of others. For the most part, the height of this type is sincerely believe in the correctness of their actions.

People of this type respect only power. The strength can be demonstrated by the firmness of words or a straight look, decisive responding to his actions. It is enough to give way to such a pinch - he will regard it as weakness and will constantly repeat its actions.

The inspirations are used by the fact that people do not want to argue, join confrontation. If several people fall into the height, it will be a lesson for him, next time before making arrogance, he thinks.

Pay attention to their conversations. Do not erupt, but when they turn to you or those who are near, listen carefully. They talk only about themselves? Are they angry or annoyed if they cease to be in the spotlight? This is quite serious signs of arrogance.

  • Employment and complacency often simply indicate a lack of life experience and concern that those who have it more, "have the benefits of them." Instead of learning more, ask questions and learn something (and these actions they perceive as weakness), the insolent of themselves do general conclusions from their limited experience and try to impose their narrow point of view to everyone else.
  • Because of the envy to your achievements or lifestyles, some may be emphasized to show superiority in front of you in the fact that they seem to do it better or because they have, and you have no.
  • Naughty people experience the strongest need to look good. If, because of you, they appear in poor light - even because of the slightest remarks - their reaction is usually very aggressive. For example, if you question (or it seems to them that put) their appearance, mind, athletic abilities or something else associated with their image.
  • Challenge their views on the world. Do not be aggressively - just say skeptical and curiously. If it is upset, try to evaluate the strength of their anger. If it is minimal, they simply got a lousy day. But if they are in rage, it seems to them that you are questioning their "little ideal world." Namely, the presence of such determines the arrogance and arrogance.

    • In this or that moment people understand that the world does not rotate around them. Heavers are opposed to this in their way: they create an atmosphere that spins around them, and angry, if they are reminded of reality.
    • An ambiguity scares the impudent people, because it implies imperfection, changes or lack of confidence (the realities with which we are struggling as we can). That is, instead of accepting that our world is unpredictable and sometimes something is happening, as we want, an arrogant person is trying to control everyone and everything. And this, in turn, is unpaid mission.
    • Reality can cause pain; Therefore, the height is not very prone to reflections and self-analysis, so they do not notice their own flaws. They can also assign themselves the fruits of other people's achievements, instead of taking into account the contribution of other people and circumstances.
  • Find out the price of their friendship. You do not need to poke your nose in other people's affairs or gossip, but if on one day they are inseparable friends in one day, and inheritant - already hate each other, this is a sign that they have many friends to the first trouble. It is also a sign of arrogance and arrogance, because it is difficult to be a good friend who is looked at yourself. Speed \u200b\u200bpeople have a need to look good, and an effective way to achieve this is self-sufficiency. A good friend is always obliged to help, so they and thoughts do not tolerate reliable friendship.

    • Oddly enough, the incomes often cannot understand why they do not have reliable and ready to support friends.
  • How do they relate to those who do not look like them? In other words, how do they relate to people of other views, cultural origin or those who look at the world otherwise? If the attitude is essentially negative, then they or indifferent to others, or seek to avoid those who oppose their illusory world, which is focused exclusively on them. It is possible to determine this in general terms of their personality and in people with whom they communicate.

    • Many specks are seriously confident that there is only one right opinion, and this opinion is their own. This is a protective mechanism of their fake representations or illusory world.
  • What is the essence of their personality? Pay attention to how they come, talk and enjoy their social status. Is it characteristic of "steepness" in its generally accepted understanding? Maybe they differ in talkative? They behave, as if they belong to them all or as "a player who has no chance to win?" Are they very worried because of their own image?

    • Many incorporations possess a false charm, which seems to be no one can take up. But the insolers are usually simply happy to demonstrate their impartial side to those who do not like.
    • When they do brutally, their friends usually ignore it or simply do nothing to prevent this. They are afraid that it can annoy their so-called "friend."
  • Mentake those who are how much you know, I like too. Not in order to start conflict, but to assess their rivals, irritable factors and hostility. If their censure has a soil and moderately, most likely, they cannot be called attentive. If they immediately demonstrate the sharpness of judgment, feel free to determine them to arrogant type.

    • For the most part, the incomplete people perceive the people who do not like, as a threat to their perfect Mirka. The more they hate someone, the more dangerous this person is dangerous for their country of illusions. And, in turn, the more threat - the stronger the criticism.
  • Share to find out what they say about you. If you hear bad things about yourself, maybe you just don't like them. If they smile in your face, but they say nasty, as if they are their favorite hobby, most likely they have problems with pride.

    • Heavers usually subconsciously know that they have no truly good friends. They compensate "Quality quantity" , creating impressionthat they have a lot of friends. Therefore, they simply insult their "trophy" friends when they do not see it.
  • Be review. Do not judge strictly impudent, or you risks to get the same negative views on the world as they. Sweetsee people often try to hide their weaknesses and fears. Mostly, the need for strong and indisputable self-sustaining comes from deeply rooted pain. Obviously, it is not also necessary to succumb to their assurances in superiority over you. In principle and removed. But you can establish contact and see sincerely good in them, praise real advantages, and not imaginary talents. Sometimes, if you get through the intake rudeness, you can free a person and allow him to be ourselves, not soamy.

    • A huge vice thing can hide behind the arrogance. This leads to a supercompensation aimed at suppressing vulnerability. For example, if the nakedness grew in poverty, but later the rich, he or she becomes a snob in relation to everything that can afford, because they cover the fear of poverty from the past.