Poor physical condition

No matter how much we try to get rid of our complexes about appearance, men pay attention first of all to her. They perfectly notice both excess fat at the waist and flabby muscles ... If a potential boyfriend sees that a lady clearly prefers sweet buns and does not know which side of the gym is, he mentally puts her a minus, no matter how clever and needlewoman she is was.

Inability to dress or carelessness in dress

You don't have to be wearing expensive boutique clothes, but if you don't pay attention to your "outfit" at all, then most men will not pay attention to you either. Let it be cheap things, but they should emphasize your merits and be in harmony with each other. Men do not forgive the lack of taste and femininity. Women who like to dress in dull clothes also lose. Alas, in the first place the attention is attracted by bright colors!

Excessive talkativeness

The woman chirps sweetly, and the man thinks: "Well, when will she shut up ?!" Of course, no one forces you to be silent like a fish during a date, but in chatting you need to know when to stop. Men love it when they look in their mouths and catch every word. So let him talk about himself and ask questions from time to time to keep the conversation going.

Low cultural level

When asked about literary and film tastes, do you start to tell something about women's novels and television series? Be prepared in advance that your next date will not happen. The fact that men love fools more is just a myth. And the content of soap operas is not interesting even to a locksmith with a secondary specialized education. If you want to find common topics of conversation, then it is better then read articles on the Internet about science or politics.

Lack of femininity in behavior

Are you too emancipated to make eyes or smile at a man? Do you expect your inner virtues to be appreciated anyway? Will not! For a man to pay attention to you, you need to hook him with something. Otherwise, how will he see you at all? Urgently learn techniques from the arsenal of seduction!

Distrust of men

If you behave too cautiously and distrustfully, in your heart, considering all men to be goats, then the man with whom fate pushed you will probably feel it. And who wants to become the next in the line of "goats" that met on the way of this woman? Therefore, in such a situation, it is easier for a man to retire than to build a relationship with a touchy one.

Inability to negotiate

You sulk about the fact that the man did not live up to some of your expectations - for example, did not wash the dishes after dinner or bought the wrong gift. If these situations with your resentment are repeated more and more often, this can become a reason for separation. To prevent this from happening, learn to openly tell a man what you want from him, do not wait until he himself guesses to fulfill your desire!

Lack of self-control habit, hysteria

Having flared up, you slander your man a bunch of nasty things, sometimes insulting his manhood. For some time he may be patient, but it is possible that sooner or later the "patient" will burst, and then the man will simply leave you. So keep yourself in check!

Laziness

If you like to spend time on the couch or at the computer and do not think about some kind of work on yourself - say, playing sports or raising the cultural level, if you neglect cleaning and washing, and buy ready-made hamburgers for lunch at McDonald's, then do not expect that the man will remain by your side for a long time. The overwhelming majority of the stronger sex like active girls who try to pay attention to both the household and their beloved.

Of course, every man has his own preferences in relation to women, but the disadvantages that push men away from women are usually the same. Therefore, draw conclusions and take care of yourself!

A lot of articles have been written about what annoys the strong half of humanity in women. It can be makeup, clothing, style, behavior. In a word, men certainly know what they don't like. But women also have a couple of nuances that spoil the opinion about the opposite sex, annoy and even repulse. We decided to talk about them.

According to statistics, women are more accommodating than men. Therefore, they are largely ready to put up with the shortcomings of their lover or potential life partner. Nevertheless, psychologists have identified several "masculine sides" that can pretty much spoil the impression of their owner. So, what annoys women the most in men?

One of the main disadvantages, according to the fair sex, is failure to keep promises... Despite all the independence of modern women and trends in relationships, most girls still want their betrothed to be responsible for his words. After all, everyone knows the expression: a man said - a man did! If such a life principle is absent, a woman gradually ceases to trust her young man, expecting another excuse from him.

Another drawback that is not at all to the liking of the beautiful half of humanity is the overestimated requirements for women. Modern men want their other half to have the appearance of a model, to be a mistress, a smart girl and an athlete. At the same time, many representatives of the stronger sex do not correspond to this image next to them. So it turns out that a man demands from a woman, at times, the impossible. Moreover, having met a smart and pretty girl, he still manages to find some disadvantages in her.

Everyone knows that in matters of appearance, women are less demanding of men than vice versa. Yet there is one trait that can repel - this slovenliness... Many men not only do not take care of themselves, but also "run themselves". Clothes that are not ironed or, even worse, unwashed, four days of stubble, dirty nails, smell - all this does not attract in any way, just the opposite. And we must pay tribute to a woman who is still able to see a worthy male representative behind such an appearance.

Very few men today can say that they really don't drink or smoke. Most do not deny themselves these bad habits. But good should always be in moderation. Alcohol and tobacco abuse, constant partying with friends, beer belly and bad breath are also repulsive factors for women.

Among the so-called male vices, according to women, are greed and arrogance. The fair half is penetrated with even greater antipathy towards men who are distinguished by laziness and love to talk tirelessly. Dependence on the opinions of friends and other people around you, according to lovely ladies, will also not please.

Sociologists were puzzled by the question of what are the most common shortcomings, in the opinion of men, women have and what traits in them are most attractive to the stronger sex. Summing up the results of the sociological survey, the following picture emerged ...

7 major female faults

Sad sack. One of the repulsive feminine traits for a man is her inability to cook and house. In this regard, I recall the dialogue between husband and wife from the famous Soviet film:
- I'm divorcing you! You don't know how to cook at all!
- I can cook, I can !!
- And I do not know how to eat what you cook. In the morning - scrambled eggs, at lunch - scrambled eggs, in the evening - scrambled eggs. I will soon cluck like a chicken ...
Indeed, a man will be able to forgive a woman a lot, but it would be much easier to build up a relationship with him if he learned in advance how to cook and clean the house with high quality. The slogan "the way to a man's heart lies through the stomach" has not yet been canceled.

Spender. Hostesses who are not able to manage the family budget correctly and prudently do not enjoy respect and due authority either from their mothers-in-law or from their husbands. A girl who can easily "lower" her entire monthly salary onto herself for one day of successful shopping is also not attractive for a serious young man. Therefore, sociologists advise to moderate the ardor in this direction and learn how to properly and accurately spend the material resources received in delicate female hands ...

Lover of diets. A lady sluggishly picking at her plate with a lonely leaf of lettuce on it, or a housewife who monthly "add" the whole family to dietary food in the form of vegetarianism or raw food - do not delight a strong half of humanity. From this, the following conclusion can be drawn. You need to lose weight and sit down on health food in silence, not particularly spreading about it to others (you still will not wait for praise and support) and in splendid isolation.

Filling. These are they, men, fickle and contradictory in their opinions! As much as they do not like ladies sitting on endless diets, so much they do not like the excessive increase in kilograms of weight in their second half, which once (at the time of courting her) was "like a reed." Therefore, ladies, look at the previous point. Husbands and your young people will always forgive you a couple or three, at least a dozen extra pounds, but I think you should not count on more, because men's patience is not unlimited.

Discussing. Men do not like it when their wives or brides start discussing their personal relationships with their girlfriends. And it doesn't matter what you “just” told your friends about what a naive dream “your pusik” had that night, or how much toilet paper he spends, as well as what razor he uses to guide the marafet and how he likes to be scratched behind his ear. A man even considers things so dear to your heart and harmless, in your opinion, to be deeply intimate and not subject to general discussion. And in something here, it seems to us, he is right ...

Kopusha. You have a full dressing room of clothes, but from time to time you exclaim: "I have nothing to wear!"? Are you one of those women who, within 2-3 hours, getting ready for a meeting with friends or for a walk, “make themselves feel good” in front of a mirror? Keep in mind that by doing this you are testing the patience of your fellow man. A man will wait for you at least forever, but deep down he will consider your slowness to be a very big drawback.

Chatterbox. Are you too talkative? Can you spend more than one hour talking on the phone with your girlfriend? Do you love long intimate interviews with your husband with a return to each topic of conversation in the second round? Men do not like such "chatterbox", they get tired of female chatter and empty talk. Therefore, do not strain their ears so much and often. Amaze your men at least occasionally with profound silence.

7 main attractive traits in a woman

And now let me briefly concentrate your attention on what so attracts male attention in a beautiful field.

1. Men adore women in high heels. These ladies immediately grab their attention.
2. Men like it when a woman adheres to her demeanor, her image and business dress.
3. Men mentally applaud women who perfectly know the flaws of their figure and skillfully hide them, and know how to emphasize their advantages with some elements of clothing.
4. Women! Smile! An invigorating smile on your face disarms the man, helps to establish better contact with him. Men admit that they would rather want to meet a smiling woman, but not with a gloomy or serious-looking woman.
5. A woman, according to men, should be able to flirt. This should be done unobtrusively, not defiantly, but not too pretentiously modest. Let's say, a gaze, defiant look, lasting about seven seconds, then a slight smile on the face, followed by mysteriously drooping eyelids, again a flirtatious look, thrown as if by accident and as the completion of the whole combination - switching attention to another object. Approximately such skills distinguish a truly attractive woman from an ordinary woman in the opinion of men.
6. A woman should be able to LISTEN to a man. Listen with interest and due attention. It is not stupid to assent to his conclusions, it is not pointless to applaud his every sneeze, but it is precisely to listen and UNDERSTAND what he is talking about.
7. All as one man, who were interviewed by sociologists, showed, looking at the photos of various girls, interest in those ladies whose legs were thrown over the legs. This position of a woman sitting is very attractive for a man in his interlocutor.

Indiscriminately accusing all men that they are goats, women forget that they themselves are not perfect. Everyone has their own shortcomings, and men, if desired, can also present a long list of claims to the fair sex. Which ones exactly female flaws most annoying to men?

Women's flaws: excessive need for attention

Of course, everyone needs attention. But women often forget that even in the most loving couples, each partner needs a personal space... At the beginning of a relationship, a couple can feel great, spending almost 24 hours a day together. But after a while the man begins to feel the need to take a breath of fresh air, while the woman continues to demand attention from him, takes up all his free time, to the extent that she drags him around the shops.

You need to give a man a personal space - he should have time that he can spend the way he wants. If he decides to spend it with you, great. And if not, this does not mean that he does not love you. It's just that his life does not end with your relationship, and this is absolutely normal. One of the biggest is to limit your whole life to them. Be self-sufficient and know how to keep the golden mean: if a woman shows love and care, but at the same time does not "strangle" a man with them, this is a great advantage, which more than covers many female shortcomings.

Women's flaws: jealousy

Jealousy is okay. As long as you can keep yourself within the bounds of decency. It's one thing when a man clearly and unequivocally gives a reason for jealousy (for example, he comes home from work in a lipstick-stained shirt, smells of women's perfume, and says that he was conducting business negotiations with suppliers). Another is when a woman is paranoid jealous of him with or without, reads his text messages, social media and e-mails, calls every five minutes and spies on him.

Many women's faults pale before jealousy. Excessive jealousy is not at all a sign of love; it is a manifestation of a sense of possessiveness and self-doubt. Any relationship is built on trust., and what kind of trust can we talk about when trying to control every step of a partner and question everything that he tells you? By the way, jealousy is also associated with the previous drawback - the desire to occupy the entire living space of a partner.

Women's flaws: excessive emotionality

Women for the most part are more unrestrained in the manifestation of emotions than men: this is due to physiological, psychological and emotional reasons. But emotions need to be able to control... A woman who sheds a tear while watching a sentimental melodrama evokes emotion. A woman throwing a tantrum over a broken nail causes rejection.

You need to keep your emotions in check: men do not like capricious, hysterical women. And especially no need to use emotions to manipulate a man: very few people like to feel like a puppet in the hands of a puppeteer, and sooner or later he will guess that you have prepared for him just such a role. But it is also not worth going to the other extreme, turning into a callous and unemotional "iron lady".

Female Disadvantages: What Else?

In fact, the list of women's shortcomings can be continued, if not endlessly, then for a very long time, and many of them - what a paradox! - contradict each other... Excessive concern for their appearance and complete disregard for it; overprotection and lack of attention to a man; laziness and workaholism; distrust of a man and blind devotion; inability to agree and excessive complaisance; a woman can be too smart and too stupid, too modest and too relaxed ...

So what does this say? About the inconsistency of men? About their desire to find fault with everything that is possible? No no and one more time no. First of all, this suggests that the disadvantage is any quality taken to the extreme: all that is bad too. In addition, all men are different: what seems like a disadvantage to one, can be perceived as a virtue to others.

In the end, men still love women, despite all their feminine flaws... Of course, this does not mean that you need to sit on their neck; as far as possible it is necessary. It just means that not everything is as bad as it might seem.

Sociologists conducted a study in order to identify the most common shortcomings that women have, from the point of view of men, as well as the main advantages, which, on the contrary, are the most attractive for the stronger sex.

So, the main female flaws:

MISMANAGEMENT... It is a repulsive trait for most men and manifests itself in both culinary mediocrity and inability to manage a household. Men are quite patient creatures: they are able to forgive a beloved woman a lot. But the relationship is much easier in a couple, where a woman monitors the cleanliness and order in the house and knows how to cook. It is through the stomach, according to the saying, that the shortest path to a man's heart lies, and this slogan is time-tested!

SHOPOLISM. Women who do not know how to manage the family budget do not find positive responses either from their beloved husbands or from their unloved mother-in-law. And is there a chance of credibility among girls who are able to spend all their (and not only their) savings in one shopping trip? If a man is serious, this behavior will sooner or later cool the fervor of love and make him think: are you really that good for each other? If you are a passionate shopping fanatic, learn how to properly plan family income and expenses.

DIETOMANIA... A girl who is without enthusiasm picking a lonely leaf of lettuce in a plate with a fork, or a wife who imposes dietary cuisine, vegetarianism or raw food on the whole family, do not cause positive emotions in men. Therefore, lose weight and go on a diet quietly, imperceptibly to others (they will still not be appreciated or approved).

WEIGHT GAIN. As much as men do not like women who are constantly on diets, they also dislike the appearance of extra pounds. Indeed, in the process of courtship, you were "like a reed", and after marriage, you gained a couple of tens of kilograms ... Therefore, dear ladies, keep in mind: your beloved will forgive you a few extra pounds ... But when you gain more "allowed" - it's worth it seriously ponder: the patience of the stronger sex is not unlimited.

GOSSIP. Men are simply annoyed when women discuss their personal relationships with their girlfriends. And it doesn't matter that you "just" told "Vera" what romantic dream your "cat" had today, how much time he spends every day in the toilet, how he scatters his socks and what preferences he has in sex ... These are completely harmless things for you, but a man perceives them as extremely intimate and not subject to going outside the family circle.

KOPUSHA. If you, having a full wardrobe, periodically suffer from the fact that "well, there is absolutely nothing to wear!" Remember that male patience is not unlimited: even if he patiently waits for you every time, he in any case experiences at least annoyance about your slowness.

SHOE. If you like to chat on the phone with a girlfriend for an hour or two, you cannot imagine life without long intimate interviews with your spouse, each time returning to the same topics ... Such habits are also not held in high esteem among men who simply get tired of useless conversations and female endless chatter. Try at least sometimes to please your beloved with sacred silence and rarely strain their hearing.

Feminine dignity:

1. Men do not let a woman in heels pass by. Such ladies instantly catch men's eyes.

2. Men love women who are able to adhere to a business style in manner, image and clothing.

3. Men admire women who are well aware of the shortcomings of their own figure and not only know how to hide them, but also to emphasize the advantages of other elements of clothing.

4. Remember to smile. An encouraging smile not only disarms a man, but also helps to establish the best possible contact between you. Men make no secret of the fact that they would rather want to meet a smiling woman than an overly serious, gloomy or gloomy woman.

5. The ability to flirt should be inherent in every woman. At the same time, flirting should be subtle, unobtrusive, but not pretentiously modest. For example, a gaze lasting about seven seconds, a fleeting smile, mysteriously closing eyelids, a light, as if casually thrown, flirtatious glance, and, finally, concentration of attention on another object. This technique, used wisely, makes a woman truly attractive in the eyes of men.

6. The ability to LISTEN to a man with due interest and attention is perhaps one of the most important female virtues. Just do not confuse the ability to listen with stupid assent and senseless admiration for his every word: listening means UNDERSTANDING.

7. According to research by sociologists, men are more sympathetic to women who have legs crossed in a sitting position. This posture of a female interlocutor is most attractive to a man.