“And you will accept death from your horse,” the wise men predicted to Prophetic Oleg. The warrior, although he sent his pet away, still did not escape the mournful fate. The main idea of ​​Pushkin's ballad is that you can't escape fate. Whether this is true, people are still arguing. Some people think that everything in life is predetermined to the smallest detail and just go with the flow. Others do not believe in the existence of a prescribed scenario and are convinced that a person is the blacksmith of his own happiness.

the site asked experts about this - esotericists and psychics - those who can manage their lives. The opinions of the soothsayers were divided. Some argue that the scenario of fate is predetermined. Others argue - the man himself is the blacksmith of his own happiness and the director of his own destiny.

I had a client. I tell her, your husband will poison you. He has some sort of pharmacology clearance. She didn't believe me. Then it turned out that his mistress works in a pharmacy. In the end, he poisoned her anyway, although she did everything to avoid this, - such a story was told by the site Alsu Gazimzyanova, participant of the program "Battle of psychics".

With this story, she illustrates her position - after all, there is fate and you can’t get away from it. Another confirmation of this is the life of historical figures, predicted in advance. For example, even before the birth of Nicholas II, it was predetermined that he would die a painful death.

Alsu Gazimzyanova gives another example from her own practice. She told everyone that a healthy girl would die soon, but they did not believe her. There were no preconditions.

They looked at me like I was an idiot. As a result, she was diagnosed with a serious cancer diagnosis. And she died, no matter how the doctors tried to save her, - said Gazimzyanova.

In her opinion, fate cannot be changed drastically, but it can be adjusted a little. And prayers, faith in God and work with karma will help in this.

Psychic Alexei Grishin is convinced that each person has his own destiny. He is born with him and it is impossible to change him. For example, someone should become a writer, someone a banker, and someone a politician.

If a person understands and implements this, he has an easy fate. Everything works out. He will be successful, rich, recognized. If a person does not follow his destiny, then his fate is burdened by various events, - said Alexei Grishin.

There are many ways to know for sure why you were born into the world. For example, this can be done using tarot cards. But often a person himself feels his destiny in the depths of his soul.

Esoteric, witch Natalya Volova, is convinced that fate can be corrected. For example, a change of name, surname or place of residence can radically change everything.

For example, Maria Ivanova was destined to be a mediocre middle-class accountant, but she marries Petrov and changes her last name. Amazing changes are taking place - a woman is achieving serious career growth. And the husband probably did not play a special role here. So fate decided.

But psychics agree on only one thing - to make life more interesting and happier for any of us. To do this, you just need to keep bright thoughts and a positive attitude.

Part 1. Is fate sealed and for how long?

Very often forum visitors ask questions like " is fate sealed?", "If fate is predetermined, is it possible to change it?". Each specialist has his own opinion on this issue, especially those who are engaged in predictions. But the fact remains and this has been verified by statistics from many specialists in this field - only every second prediction comes true. The probability of the prediction is 50 to 50, or otherwise, the prediction may or may not come true...

What is fate, what role does karma play in it? From my own experience of working with the causal (karmic) body of a person, I can say that practically everyone is born with a burden of karma ~ 60%. This means that a person must complete 49% of karmic tasks for himself, and 11% for others. For a simpler consideration, the first 50% is not taken into account, but the remaining value of the karmic burden is taken into account. So, if a person is diagnosed with a karmic burden - 50%, then this means that the person in the current incarnation has distributed his karmic debts.

Based on this, it turns out that a person can dispose of 40 percent (free from karma) at his own discretion. It is in this range that his will and the embodiment of his own intentions operate, life is built, his vision of the future is embodied.

Only 10% is destined - these are the debts that must be paid, the tasks that must be completed. In this percentage, meetings and trials prepared by fate are concluded.

It is good when the karmic burden only decreases throughout life. This means only one thing, that a person lives according to karma, gradually working it out. It is worse if this percentage grows due to the actions and misdeeds of a person, which is called negative karma.

But it’s really bad when measuring the parameter of karmic burden, it is clear that it has risen unnaturally high and often reaches 100%. Such violence against life and destiny occurs only when the field of human destiny is artificially distorted by negative programs introduced into subtle bodies as a result of magical influences. In this case, life and destiny are completely independent of a person, they are completely subordinate to negative programs and passively follow them.

100% burden (increase by 40%) gives such negatives as curses and damage, including ancestral curses inflicted on the family and passed on to all descendants in generations. As a rule, seven generations suffer from this, less often - nine.

A smaller increase in karmic burden - by 15-20% - is given by damage such as "love spell", "lapel" and the like. This is determined by the smaller number of negative programs and their narrow direction of influence. They interfere only in certain areas of human life.

Within the framework of this article, I consider such interference with fate unnatural and will not be considered further. It is believed that it is absolutely necessary to get rid of the negative and its programs and return the control of life in its original state to the person’s own hands.

Summing up the first part of the article, I believe that fate is a foregone conclusion only within the framework of the karmic burden given at the birth of a person. And this predestination or predestination occupies one-fifth of the field of free action of the will of man. A lot or a little - everyone decides for himself.

Many of us believe that fate exists and cannot be avoided. The question is how do we understand it in general. Can a person control his own destiny? Of course, after all, each of us manages and manages his own destiny. We do not depend on a phenomenon called fate, but fate depends on us, our own choices and our decisions. Someone will disagree with this and it is natural, because we all have different opinions about this.

Fate is like a certain line that we ourselves choose. Just imagine, if this were not so, then all your actions to strive to achieve something would be useless in the event of an already destined unsuccessful fate.

After all, everything that happens to us depends only on us. Although, of course, many try to justify their failures and failures by the fact that such is his fate, but this is not correct. Destiny develops in the course of our entire life path.

And it will not be correct to say that fate is already destined for a person from birth! No one can guess about the fate of someone, and even more so know it for sure.

There are various facts that easily confirm all of the above. A lot of people have tried to change their destiny and achieve something in life, and most of those who really tried succeeded! The well-known character Harry Potter was invented by the writer Joan Rolling, who is now known to the whole world. But not everyone knows how hard it was for her. After all, she was an ordinary French teacher, and then, out of nowhere, she wrote such a book?! No. Joan has long been fond of composing, even when she began teaching at school, but all her previous masterpieces did not work out for her at all. She was denied the publication of that very Harry Potter many times, but she did not give up, finalized her book, rewrote it and was persistent.
Do you really say that this is fate. After all, if she herself had not chosen such a difficult path, then her book would hardly have been published. Then it turns out that her destiny was not to become such a famous writer. In fact, Joan just herself stubbornly went to this and aspired.

You can give a simple example from the life of the most ordinary person. Who, suppose, decided to buy a lottery ticket for the sake of interest or fun. No one even expected to win. But imagine, took and won a huge amount of money! Has this never happened before? And this is not just fate, it is a choice, although it would seem quite small.

There are a lot of such examples, and all of them make it clear that one should not blame fate for everything.

In general, we can imagine fate in the form of a certain tree. When we make a decision or some important step, the branch of the tree forks and moves on. And if we made a different decision, then the tree would look different, the tree in this case is our life, that is, our destiny.

And, probably, it will be possible to say what a person’s fate is only after such a person is no longer there. It is then that we will be able to consider all his actions, both good and bad. And already from all this to draw a conclusion about the personality itself, and about what fate this person had.

Remember, fate can be imagined in different ways, you can not even believe in it, but know that everything depends only on us. Our destiny is our choice, which lasts throughout life. And only we can change!

“Everything that is done is for the best. Or worse...

In general, whoever is lucky "

(With) Avreliy Markov

Many probably remember the comedy series released in the 2000s “Balzac age, or all men are their own…”. Four unlucky heroines fail many episodes in a row in various respects, carrying the idea that the union of a man and a woman is impossible without overcoming some colossal difficulties, deceit and misunderstanding through the entire series. The series could even be funny in places if it didn’t cause an obsessive thought during the viewing process - and after all, the heroines themselves were ready for this. They, on the one hand, wanting love and relationships, on the other hand, constantly expected some kind of trick from the gentlemen and, as a result, received it in full measure!

Horoscopes ... You may not believe in them, but for sure many of us, having met an important person for ourselves in life and having learned the date of his birth, will definitely look into the description of his zodiac sign in order to understand what features can be expected from a new acquaintance. And rest assured, these features will soon be revealed!

So, today I would like to talk about some seemingly mystical part of our life - self-fulfilling prophecies. It sounds magical and a little ominous, although in reality everything is very far from mysticism.

The concept of " self-fulfilling prophecy" introduced in 1948 by the American sociologist Robert K. Merton. Here is how he described this phenomenon in his article "The Self-Fulfilling Prophecy": "... it is a false definition of the situation, causing a new behavior that turns the original false idea into reality" . The American sociologist, Professor W. Thomas spoke of self-fulfilling prophecies as follows: « If people define situations as real, then they are real in their consequences. .

That is, we ourselves set ourselves or another program for the implementation of a particular situation in the future, and the more potential, positive or negative, nested in this program, the more likely it is to be executed. A person who is sincerely confident in the correctness and inevitability of this or that event involuntarily behaves in such a way that it receives confirmation. We, in the end, will get what we put into our expectations, and the concept of “thought is material” here is not the cause, but the primary source - unconsciously we adjust our behavior precisely to the course of our thoughts.

On a simple example, this principle is perfectly illustrated by a capacious Ukrainian proverb:

“Like a man a hundred times call a pig - a hundred first won roar ».

This is exactly the case when they say "the word cripples, the word heals." Why is it considered that a mother's blessing and a mother's curse are the strongest? Mom is the first object that feels, sees and hears a child, the first guide to the world. A person's basic trust in the world is based precisely on feelings for his mother and relationships with her. The words and actions of the mother from the very birth of the child are of the greatest importance to him. Any mother's message, be it with a positive or negative context, is absorbed by the growing little man like a sponge; for a baby, this is a priori correct and beyond doubt. Therefore, maternal blessings and prayers are so strong, and curses are so destructive: a program is unconsciously launched in the human brain that implements behavior that is adequate to the message from a person whose authority is undeniable.

Let me give you another example, when a child is born in a family, many give him a name with certain hopes. Peter will definitely be unshakable and hard as a rock, Victoria will be the leader and the winner, but Roman will be a little frivolous, and he must be kept in "hedgehogs", etc. And, as a rule, if
di expect windiness from Roma, and impenetrability from Petya, they will definitely demonstrate them.

The predictions of reputable psychics, fortune tellers and astrologers have the same principle. The more weight the opinion of such a specialist “among the masses” has, the stronger the faith in him of many people, which is the mechanism that allows his predictions to come true or not come true. Therefore, in their predictions, even the most famous seers, as a rule, tend to talk about the future in rather vague forms, especially when it comes to bad predictions - after all, the future actually always has several development paths and can be changed.

The principle of self-fulfilling prophecy can be used for the benefit of yourself and others!

How? Any event in our life, before it happens, first manifests itself in the form of a thought, then it is felt emotionally (with a positive or negative connotation), and only after that we begin to shape it in reality with our behavior in accordance with the emotional response to the intended result of this event. In addition, our behavior and emotional background causes a corresponding reaction of those who are nearby, one way or another, changing their attitude towards us.

The algorithm for “positive” programming of a self-fulfilling prophecy will be as follows: first, we present an important situation for you. Further, it is necessary to completely move away from the feelings that, when presenting this situation, take possession of you. When you have succeeded, try to concentrate on the necessary outcome of this situation, imagine that this has already happened and feel the inner feeling of this. This feeling must be remembered - it will turn out easily if you practice doing this work several times. That is, developing the ability to count on the best, without drawing scenarios for the development of the worst option, is the secret of the magic of a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Today there are more fortune-tellers and sorcerers than ever before. They help escape fate. Some of them are just charlatans, ready to sell not only their souls, but also their conscience for money. Some people firmly believe in what they are doing, but in fact they do not succeed in anything sensible. There are those who speak the truth. Is it possible? Is it possible to get away from fate using Tarot cards, Palmistry, astrology, etc.? This will require scientific analysis.

One of the most prominent psychiatrists of mankind was Carl Jung. He described in his scientific works the river of social consciousness. Today we call it the information-energy field. There is no space, no time, no movement. There are the most sensitive people who are naturally given the opportunity to connect to this field. I am familiar with many of them. Someone sees before their eyes, like a movie, a series of frames, someone hears voices, someone feels a vibration and can determine yes or no by it as an answer to their question to this field. From my observations, it turns out that the past can be identified quite accurately, but there are problems with the future. Next, I did my research, sorting through various literature on this topic. And there is. Why? Yes, because people have freedom of choice. That is why the future is unsteady, while the past is already imprinted in this information-energy field.

So, is it possible to bypass fate, thanks to fortunetellers? It turns out that no, because even the best fortune-tellers do not see the future. Let's put it differently - this future is built in the course of the play and it turns out that the fortuneteller is also part of fate. Yes Yes. How can we check? It is not possible to enter the same water twice. It is not possible to shoot a movie from the moment you get to the fortune teller until the end of the session, and then unscrew the movie back and repeat the same thing without the fortune teller.

It's easier with examples. Here the fortuneteller sees that a man gets into an accident on a train. A person, following the advice of a connoisseur of the future, avoids the train by all means. He flies by planes, drives by cars, but not by trains. And it was planned by fate that it was as a result of this accident that he received large monetary compensation, met with his life partner and became a famous writer, because. in him a talent was revealed from shocks. This person will run from job to job, not recognized, already bald and without a life partner, at night taking out his teeth in a jar. So what did the fortune teller do? Helped or hindered its development?

In fact, it doesn’t matter to fate which way you come to the realization of the truth, what is this path to yourself, to your real self. It could have been joyful and enthusiastic, but it turned out to be boring and sad. And as a result, at the end of his days, in both cases, a person comes to the realization that we are temporary guests here on earth. Our home is eternity and perfection. It is there that our real Self strives. This is our destiny - to come to this eternity, perfection and universal love. You can’t get around fate, but you can break firewood along the way as it should.

Be healthy,